Trying out anal sex for the first time takes some warming up. Take your time and move very slowly, it will pay off in the end!
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Trying Out Anal Sex


In "most” relationships ANAL SEX is fantasized more by the guy than the girl. Granted, many females out there truly enjoy ANAL SEX or ass play as a form of erotica and sexual gratification but their guy may not know how or when to go there with her.

Start small – literally! Instead of trying to stuff your big rod right in her bum, try playing with her anus first during intercourse with only a finger. That does not imply you drive your thumb into her immediately upon penetration. The anus is not like the vagina when it comes to "lift off”.

During conventional sex, a female is often lubricated naturally or even with a product before penile penetration. When she is lubed up like this you could easily just STAB her vagina with your penis and it would go in like a knife in form fitting sheath. The ANUS is not like that – warm up time for lift off takes a lot more patience and manipulation.

As mentioned, even when using your finger, start small – and slow. Tickle or tease the anus with your finger and when she starts to cum, then slide your finger in deeper but slowly. You will know right away if she likes it or not. When a woman likes your finger she will not touch your hand while you are dong this. If you are doing it wrong or she does not like it she will grab your hand immediately. Remember to take it slow because there is that rare moment when she will grab your hand but it will be to guide you.

Once you have established that she is ANAL FRIENDLY then you should discuss with her how she wants you to do it. Some girls like you to do it from behind and some like to lay on their back so they can play with their clitoris. Once you know how she likes it then tell her you want to do that way. She will ultimately tell you WHEN you can do it and now you both will be on the same page.

Use a LOT of lubrication and absolutely use a condom because there is not sex worth dying or getting a disease or infection over. Communicate with your partner and you can both have a really erotic and fulfilling anal sexual experience.


By: Jackson Morris
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