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Could These Balls Be Yours, By Chance?
Doc:
My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We fell in love right
away and even moved in together (she was new in town). I'm 23 and she's
24. We had all these plans for the future and I even brought an engagement
ring.
She went on a business trip 3 months ago and when she came back she told
we she needed a break to figure out who she is and what she wants. I found
out that before she asked for the break she met a 26 year old guy who
lives 2 hours from us. I asked her if she wanted to break up and she said
no, she just needs space.
Well the other guy started coming to see her and she has even gone to
spend the whole weekend with him. I called this guy a couple of times
because I was being stupid.
She has really hurt me but I still love her so much. I'm afraid to give
her the break she wants because she may forget what we once shared. I tell
her lets not talk until she figures out what she wants and she says she
still wants to talk and hang out with me. I don't know what to do? Does
she still love me?
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Hello!
I'm sorry to tell you this, no, she doesn't love you. If she did, how
could she consider being with someone else while she's with you?
Frankly, this is particularly dirty - she already has another "boyfriend"
even though she's living with you and doesn't want YOU to move on, but
wants that freedom herself! Sure, she doesn't want to break up - she has
you at home cleaning everything and paying the bills while she gets to go
out and establish a new relationship. What a self-centered, using bitch!
And then there's you - why in the hell would you put up with such a thing?
She's going there spending weekends with him two hour away? Why would you
ever tolerate such a thing? Because you "love" her? Where is your
self-respect and dignity? Where are your balls? Oh, I know, they're in her
purse, right next to that love she claims to have for you. My brother,
this isn't "love".
It's time to wake up out of this "love fog" you've got and start seeing
this for what it is. You're obviously under the impression that you can't
do better than her, but let me assure you, she's nothing special. When she
goes out and runs around on you still hoping that you'll hang around just
in case her new boyfriend doesn't work out, you're as much to blame about
all of this as she is - maybe more!
Tell her that she can go have her weekend, then spend that time packing up
all of her stuff and putting it on the doorstep to greet her when she
comes home. Also be sure to change the locks and phone number. Then, you
and your buddies can go out on Sunday night to celebrate and meet some
much better women.
Best regards...
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