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Does My Girlfriend Love Me?
Doc:
I've seen your articles around the Internet and I've have a question for
you.
How would I know if my girlfriend really does love me or not?
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Hello!
Frankly, she probably loves you, but your question (if I understand it) is
if she's "in love" with you.
Obviously, I can't read her mind to be able to tell you, however, let me
offer the following:
Poets, song writers and romantics have been trying to define exactly what
love is since man has been around. To date, nobody has been able to give a
definition that comes close to embodying the true nature of love. However,
here's one person's definition that I think comes close:
"When you are more concerned with someone else's happiness, well-being,
future and life than even your own, you're in love."
That may seem somewhat vague or trite, but it's a pretty good definition in
my eyes. When you dwell over someone else's happiness, well-being, future
and life everyday; when you place more concern on them and would even forego
these things for yourself in order to have them for the other person -
that's what love feels like.
So, to your question: is your girlfriend in love with you?
Ask yourself this: how does she treat you? Do your happiness, well-being,
future and life come before hers according to her actions? Anyone can say
they love someone else, but it's very difficult to fake. If she's truly in
love with you, her actions will scream it from every pore! What someone does
is always more accurate than what they say.
Now, the only question you have to answer is: do you love her?
Best regards...
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