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Does Your Stutter Turn Away Chicks?

Dear Sex Doctor,

First, little background on me: I'm am 18-year-old guy, had a few girlfriends, but none serious. I've been told by girls that I'm good looking and I catch girls checking me out almost every time I go out, but I have a problem that's been getting in the way of dating for years. I used to stutter when I was little for quite some time and at times heavily.

Then when I was about 10 years old it improved greatly, but then my parents moved to US when I was 11-12 and I started stuttering again, because I had a second language to learn and it all got mixed up in my head.

Its not like I cant get out words, but about once a sentence I just cant get the first letter out for a sec or two and end up sounding stupid.

I was wondering if you could give me ANY tips on how to make my speech fluent.

It's the one thing that's been haunting me for my whole life and I'd really like to get rid of it while I'm relatively young. And it's the main reason I'm not experienced with girls, I'm just afraid that as soon as I start talking I'll get stuck and she'll think I'm slow or something...

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First, you need to get rid of that belief that stuttering makes you sound stupid - nothing could be further from the truth! A lot of people stutter, and have all sorts of other speech impediments that don't reflect at all on them personally - including me!

One of the best tricks I've ever heard of to deal with stuttering comes from music. Have you never noticed that some singers stutter, but when they sing, they don't stutter at all? The reason why is that their brains "hear" the music before they say a single word.

If you slow down just a little and hear yourself say the sentence before you say actually say it, you'll find that you reduce the stuttering dramatically. This can be difficult to do when you're talking to a little honey, so you want to practice it now and get used to doing it.

What's even better is that by using this technique, you'll actually appear to be contemplating your response, and will actually look really intelligent!

Have a love, relationship or man/woman question? Dr. Neder answers all email. Write him at dwneder@remingtonpublications.com for answers. Learn about his book, "Being a Man in a Woman's World", at: www.beingaman.com.
 
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