As Shaon shares with us about the game, it’s not that easy – even when we know what we should be doing. So check out what he’s got to say and after that I’ll share my advice:


Back In The Game

Hello, my name is Shaon, a proud recent owner of your book. I wanted to thank you and let you know that what you have made here is a revolutionary tool. Not just to meet women, also powerful knowledge that is helpful in any given scenario. Just to explain a little about myself. I’m 20 yrs old, male obviously, and this evening I made a move. See, I used to be a smooth player, but all that’s before I fell in love and changed. Now it’s just weird. I’ve got a good man inside, and as well as the player side of me. The mix of the two just doesn`t jive well.

Personally, I want to get back to who I was before, a smooth Mofo if you will. Reading this book is like reading my previous life’s knowledge, but now I’m ready to really polish it. It’s making me proud. So thank you. So tonight I met a girl, she works at the mall for Proactive and said "my baby cousin is very stressed out, I`m visiting her this weekend to take her out on a shopping spree and thought maybe I should buy something along to that to get her acne problem fixed since she’s so stressed out."

We started talking and everything....but this girl...my oh my. She made me WAIT to talk to her cuz she had to fix the computer and deal with customers. And it kinda didn’t go as I wanted it to go. But once we started talking, it was smooth. BUT!!! I didn’t leave when I should’ve...and later in the evening I came back to see her with the excuse that I wanted to get a brochure. My mistake then was not to ask her out for any "simple dinner" or any of that crap, and instead use the opportunity to pass by her another time since she WILL BE there again.

Well it’s good that i realize these things, it’s bad and BAD that I`m not using the right moves on this beautiful girl. At the end the convo pretty much ended with her letting me know she had a boyfriend she didn’t want to disrespect and she’ll see me again when I’m at the mall. Any idea or advice?

Your Apprentice,

Shaon


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Hey Shaon:

Thanks for the kind words! We worked hard to put absolutely the best dating & sex advice in this book for our readers so it’s always great to hear it’s working. Let’s break down what you’ve got to do in order to get back in fighting shape:


Recognizing The Problem Is The Very First Step Of The Game

Okay, so the good news is you’re aware. Kudos to you. Recognizing you’ve got a problem, challenge etc., is always the very first step in overcoming it.

How many times have you been out at a big special event (say a wedding, or dance club, or party) and witness a guy just bombing out left and right with the ladies – but continuing to approach them the exact same way again and again to the point it makes you cringe with embarrassment for the guy? That’s a man who’s not aware he’s got a problem. But ignorance isn’t bliss because it’s not netting the results he desires. You’ve lost your edge and you own it, now you can take clear steps towards getting it back, and getting into the game again.

As long as you recognize the problem you can change it.


To Get Back In The Game, The Point Of Power Is In Now

The biggest point you need to remember, whether starting a fresh flirtation, or realizing you’ve totally bit the dust with a girl you’ve already known or are in a relationship with, is to remember that the point of power is in now. If you’ve messed up (whether getting something started, or broken the heart of a great girl) you’re never going to get back in the game and play well as long as you live in the past or the future. The point of power is in now. Just as a great athlete can’t be totally in the game if he’s running over and over in his head how he blew it in the last play, you can’t be in the game if you’re consumed with a silly resent mistake.

To get back in the game, the point of power is in now. Say this phrase to yourself again and again until it resonates through your entire self. It has tremendous power. Perhaps you’ve been totally shy in the past and now you’re ready to be outspoken. To get back in the game, the point of power is in now. Perhaps the girl admits to a boyfriend she doesn’t want to disrespect. The point of power is in now. Perhaps you won’t say hi to her the next time you drop by the same mall, but you will the time after that – and you’ll be cool and casual and just say, "Hey, nice to see you, how are you?” You won’t bring up the boyfriend, you won’t hang around and wait for her to be done with clients or to get off work, and you’ll just be friendly and cool.


The Game Of Picking Up Women -- But What If She Has A Boyfriend?

Because most boyfriends don’t last forever, you want to keep yourself in the back of her mind – but you’re just getting back in the game again yourself so you don’t want any major serious thing going on again right away, right? (Plus, respect her boyfriend as you`d want him to respect you).

So you’re going to be friendly, but have places to go when you see her. You might, oh in a few weeks, pay her a nice compliment (but not a sexual one) but it’ll come off as "I just thought you needed to know” and you won’t stop for more than a few seconds, in fact, it’s best if you keep moving while you do it.

Here’s the thing Shaon, men who can pay women thoughtful, sincere compliments with an air of "I just had to tell you” but with no feeling of wanting or expecting something back are the sort of men women look forward to seeing.


She Is Only One Beautiful Woman In The Game

I don’t doubt this girl at the mall is as marvelous as you say. I bet you’ve got great taste and she’s gorgeous – but you’re just not in the place to be hooking up with only one woman right now. You’re still getting your game legs back. You haven’t had enough time to get out there and see who else is available yet.

Now is the time to venture forth with your eyes open and see just how many gorgeous females there are out there for you to get to know. You don’t have to try and date them all, but you certainly should give yourself ample time to get to know a broad array of women so you can figure out just what type of girl is really right for you.

And you won’t do that sitting at home on the couch worrying over the fact that you’re off the game. Nope. Reading and studying seduction is great, but then you’ve got to get out there and put what you’re learning into action.

And you`ve learned how easy it is to get back in the game.