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How to Ask a Girl Out On A Date



Recently, I met a very sexy girl that I`m nearly sure she`s interested in me but not totally sure. The big step here is when is the right time to ask her for a date. She`s 17 years & a girl that isn`t much involved in night life besides she doesn`t go out much.

I`d like to take your advice about how can I keep on impressing a girl like this, assuring that she`ll accept my invitation & what is the best technique to do so? Do you think there`s a certain place to take her to that she`ll surely like since she rarely goes out?

I appreciate your help.

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How To Ask A Girl Out On A Date

Dr. Neder answers:

First off, if you really want to ask this girl out on a date, you`ve got to get your head on straight about how women think. If you focus on impressing her, you`re going to just blow her out of the water. DO NOT try to impress women! It doesn`t work. They see right through it and interpret those actions as a sign that you have nothing else going for you.

What you appear to want is a "sure thing", and there absolutely, positively is only one sure thing when it comes to women: there are no sure things! You can`t be absolutely positive that she`s interested in you - no way, no how. It doesn`t work like that because SHE isn`t sure she`s interested in you yet! Women DO NOT think like men. This is just going to get you into trouble here.

After You Ask Her Out

So, what DO you want to do? There are a thousand little things, but it comes down to the fact that you want to act like you don`t care about what she thinks, does, etc. You`ve got to convince her that SHE`S going to have to work to get your time. This is what women crave in men. Women want to DO the chasing, not BE chased! Thus, keep everything simple.

As far as when you should make your move - you should have done that the instant you met her. The saying goes, "He who hesitates is lost" and that is double-true with women. Don`t wait - get moving!

If you really want a chance with this woman, you need to jump on getting educated about women, because believe me, someone that DOES understand women is just going to come in and scoop her up from under you if you don`t.

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Dr. Dennis Neder Have a love, relationship, sex or man/woman question? Dr. Neder answers all email. You can write to him at dwneder@beingman.com for answers. For more information about his book, "Being a Man in a Woman`s World", visit beingaman.com.
 
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