The first thing on the menu between a couple that wants to try new things COMMUNICATION. If you two communicate both your wants and needs then you can understand how to satisfy each others kinky cravings.

Couples that communicate well together end up staying together longer because there solid communication is a "PROBLEM SOLVER”. People that can work out problems have fewer of them to work out – leaving the bedroom open to two people that are very well connected. The most important aspect of your discussions has to be the TRUTH – the whole truth so help you. Don’t hold back telling your partner your deepest kinkiest thoughts about sex and sex toys – or even additional partners.

Most couples that are ready to turn things up in the bedroom are past the "toys” phase and want to play with others. Having a third person or even another couple added to the mix is very kinky. As a man I know nothing turns me on more than when I am having sex with a female that is going down on my girlfriend and seeing my girlfriend politely pull the girls hair back to get it out of the way….nice. Most couples prefer to have a "girl” or FMF action but there are many couples that like MFM action as well. That is when the couple brings in another guy to have a three way with them – both guys are straight (let’s hope).

But when it comes to ONE on ONE Kinko Action I think EXHIBITIONISM, VOYEURISM & ROLE PLAY are the winners. Getting kinky as a couple without having to use another couple is very creative and clearly more geared toward a monogamous couple. Want some excitement? Have your girl go to a bar dressed to kill. Have her sit at the bar and flirt – not with one man – all the men. They will think she is easy and they will all think they have a chance. Then – you walk in make your way through the crowd and whisper in her ear. She will lean into and make them all jealous – then she whispers in your ear and you say, "CHECK PLEASE!”

Remember what was mentioned earlier about communication – that is more important than anything because these other acts are not something you "SPRING” on people. Don’t surprise your girl with another couple or a blunt object with letting her know it COULD happen. Especially when it comes to other couples or people entering your relationship – be wise and be safe as to protect both you and your partner.

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By: Jackson Morris
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