Because that’s what we’re all about here at SeductionInsider.com, kicking your love life into high gear.

But as with any important undertaking you need to take time for careful preparation if you want to be successful. You wouldn’t go on a road trip without taking a map to tell you how to get there would you? Not even men are that stupid.

So let’s look at the ways you can plan ahead and be ready to take advantage of all summer has to offer.


Let Go of Old Romances, Crushes & Flings

It’s time to let go of the past bro. Nothing’s going to hold you back from hot new possibilities than your heart and mind being caught up in shoulda, woulda, coulda. Let her go. I don’t’ care how much you think she’s the girl for you you’ve got to let her go – she may come back sometime, but not unless you really let go, are open to new possibilities, and actively move on.

Same goes with those little trinkets, memos and photos…put them away in a box at the back of the closet if you have to hang on to them. Ask yourself this, say you got supremely lucky and brought Charlize Theron home with you one night – nothing should be left out and visible about your romantic past that you’d be embarrassed to have her find.

Same goes with the status of your abode.


Break Up Your Routine

All work and coming home to sit on your couch flipping channels makes Jack a very dull boy. The chances of you meeting anyone wonderful while more or less chained to either your desk at work or your couch at home are slim to none. Warmer weather means it’s time to get out and add as many ways possible to meet some beautiful creature to your ordinary day. Just off the top of my head I can think of three easy and distinct possibilities:

On the way to work:

Not a morning person? Too bad, get up earlier and stop for coffee at a local hip coffee at least a few times a week. Even better if you give yourself enough time to sit down and read the paper while you watch the scenery walk by. Chances are if you like what you see she lives in the neighborhood and you have a good chance of running into her again.

Your lunch break:

Don’t eat at your desk, even if you bring something from home. Check out a local park or diner, and once in awhile get a group of friends from work to check out a local hot spot.

On the way home:

What’s the rush to get home and watch re-runs? Enjoy the lengthening sunshine. Instead of hitting the gym hit the beach, the park, or a local day hike. Stop off and enjoy a happy hour at a really hot club before there’s a line outside. Who knows, you might stay and dance the night away…


Take Better Care of Yourself

What’s the difference between you and the guys who get all of the great women? Two things:

1) They take great care of themselves

2) They get out and meet the women they want to meet

The important thing to note is the care comes first. Oh sure, some of rock n’ rolls bad boys and Hollywood actors can burn both ends of the candles and keep getting great women, but you’re forgetting that they don’t have to get up until noon while you, most likely, have to keep some sort of nine to five grind.

If you’re like most of us you’re probably a bit sleep deprived, you could stand to lose a few pounds and shape up, and you’re eating regime consists of far too many things made out of bread so how about trying the following for a couple of months to see how you feel?

Get eight full hours of sleep at least five nights a week. Stop flipping channels and surfing the Internet and get some good shuteye.

Forget a gym membership if you’re not going to use it. Why not walk or cycle three days a week, and how about adding a martial arts class or a yoga class? Yep, that’s right, I said yoga. It’s not only great for you (hey Sting looks pretty damn good for his age) the classes are filled with scantily clad women. Need I say more?

Improve your diet. Cut back on the starch and the bread and add the greens. Cut back on the beef and eat instead more lean chicken and fish. Don’t go on a radical diet because diets don’t work, just make better choices.

Plan Fun Things to Look Forward to Throughout the Summer Don’t have the funds or the time off from work for two weeks in Tahiti? No worries. There are plenty of ways to give yourself a mini vacation and still have the opportunity to meet plenty of single women.

Also, by spreading the events out throughout the summer you’ll leave yourself something to always look forward to, give your wallet a rest in between, and a fresh supply of new women to meet. Here are just a couple of ideas to spark you:

Check out a music or food festival like the famous 32nd annual Telluride Bluegrass Festival in the mountains of Colorado this June 16-19th, the World Championship Barbecue Cooking Contest in Memphis Tennessee this May 12th -14th, or the Monterey Jazz Festival in Monterey California this September 16th – 18th, or if you’re really ready to let it all hang out why not get your buds together to attend this year’s Burning Man Festival in the Black Rock Desert of Nevada this August 29th – September 5th. Burning Man even has year round events now to get you both in the mood, and in shape, for the big event!