If you're girl is new to that scene then a good option to start would be a vibrating ring. Like a cock ring, it slips on your shaft but it's a lot more fun. It's not a full on sex toy because it still involves you and that will make it les "scary" for a newbie. Plus, you still get to thrust and every time you get up to her she gets to feel the vibration on her clit, quite a turn on.

After she's comfortable with the little buzzer than you can move on to a bullet. It's a small vibrator that isn't intimidating. If she's shy than you could encourage her to use it on her own and after she gets comfortable and finds her "hot spots" than she can use it in front of you & during sex. They are usually not too high powered but you ca get sleeves for the medium sized ones.

A sleeve is a skin for it, usually bumpy or shaped for maximum pleasure. When you both feel ready to graduate, I suggest going together to a sex shop. That way you two can pick something that will work great for the both of you. Don't hesitate to ask the person on duty either, that's what they're there for and they can offer you some tips.

If the whole vibrator thing has been going well than you can try the dildo route. If your girl is still revved up when you're down for the count then this is a good option to keep the gal satisfied (And it never goes limp!). Also they have dildos with vibrators built in, talk about a double whammy! If you had been wanting to try anal and you're girl has a too tight ass than you can also get the "graduated dildo" also great for girls with not a lot of vaginal sex experiance as well.

It starts narrow at the tip and slowly widens as you reach the base. So, if you can at least get a finger in without protest than maybe you should bring it up. If anal is something she wants to try than she will more than likely be willing to expirement with it. That way she can work her way up to the main event and you'll save her some of the uncomfortableness of just getting rammed in a sensitive area. Also remember tons of lube!! It'll make things way easier. And go slow if you ever want to get anywhere, you've gotta walk before you can run.

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