Whether you have a nice round ass or you have “fried egg” butt cheeks – sometimes nothing feels better than having that ass spanked like you are in trouble! I have to watch it sometimes because I am 200 pounds of pure muscle and when that train is running full speed a girl could get hurt. We all have to respect our size and gender when slapping our partners with a “fresh one”.

Do you want a “fresh one”? I will spank you for reading this article. See how fun it is to threaten people with a good time? We all like different levels of spanking so hopefully with that contrast in mind I can satisfy the curious minds of SeductionInsider.com readers with some helpful tips to remember when you are about to slap skin.

Speaking of slapping skin, that is where we will start. If you keep your hand FLAT with your palm pushing outward THIS is what I call The Red Baron. The RB because like the fighter pilot – all you saw was a red mark in the sky when he did his damage. Your hand does not allow for AIR and creates more pain and thus a big red handprint is left on the ass or face or wherever you are slapping or spanking someone.

When I was growing up in the Mid-West many of the schools used corporal punishment or PADDLE spankings. These paddles had “holes” drilled in them by the wood shop teacher because the holes would let air pass through – point being – AIR acts as padding or a cushion when you are spanking. Having said that if you CUP your hand as if you holding water when you go to spank, the air will help relieve some pain and less of a mark. THOSE MARKS CAN BE TROPHIES OR EMBARASSING.

Very much like ROUGH SEX (Read Rough Sex) you and your partner must have a SAFE WORD when it comes to any kind of rough, physical or abusive sex style. Striking your partner in any aggressive way can be damaging if you don’t do it the right way so establish a word for “KEEP GOING” and establish another word for “I CAN”T TAKE ANYMORE”. That is about respect more than anything and if you and your partner are good communicators then SPANKING is only one of the many activities you will discover in this genre. There is spanking, bondage, S&M, pinching, piercing and even biting – whatever your tolerance for pain or the pleasure you derive from it can found safely and sanely. Respect your partner no matter how much you are beating an orgasm out of them.

By: Jackson Morris
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